Eulogies & Obituaries

Writing Obituaries & Eulogies

Organize Your Thoughts

Take time to jot down your ideas in a way that feels most comfortable. Draft an outline for your speech, and incorporate the information you've collected.

Write It Out

Unlike a wedding toast, a eulogy requires careful planning. Writing it down ensures you include all the details you want to remember. When printing, use a large font or leave extra space if handwritten, making sure it's easy to read. Keep your eulogy concise, particularly if there are multiple speakers.

Review and Revise

Your first draft isn't final. After completing it, take a break and revisit it later with fresh eyes. Use this time to make any necessary revisions.

Practice Thoroughly

Read your eulogy multiple times to become comfortable with it. Practice in front of a mirror, or share it with friends or family for feedback. The more you rehearse, the easier it will be to speak from memory rather than reading from a script.

Include Appropriate Humor

Laughter can offer comfort, so consider adding a light-hearted, memorable story about the deceased that others can relate to. Ensure your humor is respectful, as a diverse group of people may be in attendance.

Be Prepared to Show Emotion

Funerals are emotional, and it’s okay to show tears. If you're concerned about becoming too emotional to speak, arrange for someone you trust to deliver the eulogy on your behalf. Provide them with a copy in advance.